Have you ever been talking to someone or a group and another individual starts talking? It happens to me all the time. I use to think maybe I’m not interesting enough or my opinion doesn’t matter. There are times just getting a word in during a conversation is impossible. In fact, at work I have begun raising my hand in meetings because it’s like no one sees or hears me if I don’t make a spectacle. And the thing I have begun to understand is my voice is important and my opinion does matter. According to…well everyone, I have white privilege. No, this is not a poor me but it is a view from the so called white privilege underdog.
Popular, pretty, intelligent, leader and athletic are not words that would have EVER described me. Perhaps sweet, quiet and follower would best label me and we all know how I feel about labels (previous blog) they are a necessary evil. Children were to be seen and not heard was a belief I took everywhere even when interacting with peers. I wish I knew where it came from, this idea that I wasn’t worth listening to. My parents always listened when I had something to say. Now if I knew you I wouldn’t shut up. Like a dam of words was ready and waiting.
Over the years I have given others excuses for interrupting, talking over or just plain ignoring. But today I’m here to tell everyone your voice is worth hearing. I don’t care your ethnicity, religion or popularity/economic status, if you have something to say then find out how to be heard. I’m learning it’s ok for people to not agree with me or not like me but they damn sure better respect that it is my opinion and no one has the right to silence it.
Even us white girls have to make an ass out of ourselves sometimes. How do I make myself heard? Your voice does not always have to be audible. My blog helps me feel heard. My words and thoughts are put out there for those that are interested. Others like to march in protests, being heard as a group brought together my similar beliefs. In this era of social media, technology and support groups there is a way for us all to be heard.
Remember, sometimes silence is golden and you never see an underdog until they are ready for you to see them. One quiet little girl from south Alabama might just become a big freaking deal. After all, in some circles I’m quite famous 😉. Now days the words I use to describe myself:
- Beautiful
- Loving
- Kind
- Intelligent
- Courageous
- Human
- Strong
- BETTER
Misty Better Everyday 